Wedding Music Guide 2025

Everything you need to know about planning the perfect wedding music

From first dance songs to reception playlists - expert advice from London's professional wedding musicians

What's In This Guide

Planning Essentials

  • • Wedding music timeline
  • • Live band vs DJ comparison
  • • Budget planning tips
  • • Venue considerations

Song Suggestions

  • • Top first dance songs 2025
  • • Reception playlist ideas
  • • Ceremony music options
  • • Special request considerations

Live Band vs DJ: What's Best for Your Wedding?

🎸

Live Band

✅ Advantages:

  • • Authentic live energy & interaction
  • • Unique versions of popular songs
  • • Professional entertainment experience
  • • Can adapt to crowd response
  • • Memorable visual performance
  • • Takes requests and personalizes songs

❌ Considerations:

  • • Higher cost (£599-£1,499+)
  • • Limited to songs they know
  • • Requires more space for setup
  • • Break times needed
🎧

DJ

✅ Advantages:

  • • Access to any song ever recorded
  • • Generally lower cost
  • • Continuous music (no breaks)
  • • Smaller setup footprint
  • • Can mix songs seamlessly

❌ Considerations:

  • • Less interactive performance
  • • Playing recorded versions only
  • • May feel less “special”
  • • Quality varies significantly
  • • Limited crowd interaction

Our Recommendation:

For weddings, live bands create more memorable moments and authentic energy. Many couples choose acoustic sets for dinner and full band for dancing - getting the best of both worlds!

Top First Dance Songs for 2025

SongArtistGenrePopularity
PerfectEd SheeranPop/AcousticVery Popular
Thinking Out LoudEd SheeranPop/AcousticVery Popular
All of MeJohn LegendR&B/SoulVery Popular
Marry MeTrainPop RockPopular
A Thousand YearsChristina PerriPop/AcousticVery Popular
Make You Feel My LoveAdele/Bob DylanFolk/SoulPopular
Your SongElton JohnClassic PopTimeless
Can't Help MyselfFour TopsMotownRetro Favorite
BudapestGeorge EzraFolk PopPopular
Ho HeyThe LumineersFolkPopular

💡 Pro Tip: Song Choice

Choose a song that means something to you both. Popular doesn't always mean right for your relationship.

⏱️ Duration Matters

Most first dances are 3-4 minutes. Consider asking your band to fade out early if needed.

🎸 Live Version

Acoustic versions often work better for first dances than full band arrangements.

Your Wedding Day Music Timeline

1

Pre-Ceremony (30 mins)

Background level

Soft acoustic covers, instrumental versions

2

Ceremony Entrance

Clear but not overwhelming

Bridal entrance song (3-4 mins)

3

Ceremony Exit

Full volume

Upbeat celebration song

4

Cocktail Hour (1 hour)

Background conversation level

Acoustic covers, jazz standards

5

Dinner (1.5 hours)

Background level

Soft acoustic sets, easy listening

6

First Dance (5 mins)

Feature level

Your chosen song

7

Reception Dancing (3+ hours)

Party level

High-energy mix

Reception Playlist Ideas

Early Reception (Background)

  • 1Valerie - Steve Winwood
  • 2Isn't She Lovely - Stevie Wonder
  • 3Your Song - Elton John
  • 4Sweet Caroline - Neil Diamond

Getting the Party Started

  • 1Mr. Brightside - The Killers
  • 2Don't Stop Me Now - Queen
  • 3I'm a Believer - The Monkees
  • 4Happy - Pharrell Williams

Dance Floor Fillers

  • 1Uptown Funk - Bruno Mars
  • 2Can't Stop the Feeling - Justin Timberlake
  • 3Shut Up and Dance - Walk the Moon
  • 4September - Earth, Wind & Fire

Sing-Alongs

  • 1Bohemian Rhapsody - Queen
  • 2Livin' on a Prayer - Bon Jovi
  • 3Don't Look Back in Anger - Oasis
  • 4Wonderwall - Oasis

Expert Tips from The JB Experience

🎵 Song Requests & Special Moments

Most professional bands can learn new songs with advance notice. Don't be afraid to request something meaningful to you, even if it's not on their standard setlist.

Pro tip: Give your band a “do not play” list too - some songs might have negative associations you'd rather avoid.

📍 Venue Considerations

Different venues have different acoustic properties. Outdoor venues might need more powerful sound systems, while historic buildings might have volume restrictions.

Always check with your venue about noise restrictions, power requirements, and setup space before booking your entertainment.

💰 Budget Planning

Typically allocate 8-15% of your wedding budget to entertainment. Remember to factor in travel costs if your venue is far from London.

Booking direct with bands (like us!) can save 20-30% compared to going through agencies, leaving more budget for other wedding priorities.

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